Hi All, thank you for your support and encouragement. I am trying to be as strong as I can. So many things needs to be thought about lately. But the most priority for me is the timeshare of the child custody. I hope we can minimize the impact to our kids. H loves our kids, but I feel sometimes he is not very responsible. As I mentioned in my previous posts, H always disappeared for couple days and lied to kids. He rarely checked kids' homework, and most of time he just let them watch Ipad if only H was at home with them. I know I cannot change or control his behavior, but I also want our kids can finish their homework on time every day, and participate more other activities other than watching ipad. I talked to H, but he didn't think that's a problem. H still insisted that H took good care of the kids. BTW, many times when it was H's turn to pick up kids or watch them or took them to some classes, he just texted me that he was busy at work or something and asked me to do it for him. Of course I cannot say no. But I don't feel it right. Lawyers said since we haven't legally separated, I cannot enforce him to do what he promised. Is it true? Thank you in advance for your inputs.
M 18 yrs 5 & 7 yrs old kids H DB in 4/2013 H moved out in 11/2013
