I have watched you from a distance.... always amazed at how well you handle things.
You are and have always done (at least IMO) a much better job than I ever did at "getting it".
FWIW, I think you could not have handled it any better.
You sound good man....although you mentioned that it was still her choice..for a while..I think you really understand that this is now all about YOU. It really is YOUR choice.
Whatever you decide - it will be the best for BOTH of you.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans