Agreed, it is a tricky position for me because I do not want her to go on the defensive.
There is a bit of irony here that complicates my feelings. In the lowest point of my sitch, when I was absolutely certain I could not forgive her if she had an A, Bob's sitch was responsible for me softening. The weekend my W went away, and I thought she was with OM, I was at church when they announced that Bob and his W were reconciling. It really made me rethink my stance.
I didn't judge him then, but I have to wonder of this guy has really changed.
M-44 W-45 S21,S18,SS16,SD13,S5,D4 M-9y BD- May 2013 Piecing- Dec 2013
