I dont know why Job but you have made me smile - and that at the moment is a rarity! To be honest you are right - regardless of what this is myself, and most importantly my D, do not need this stuff going on. I am not a prude but I do have ethics and morals and I certainly have those expectations for my D - who - at the age of 12 - is at an impressionable age... I dont need this message being sent to her - directly or indirectly... Re the tea - maybe!! - and to be honest I have never liked Camilla..... x