I am unsure if I am detaching or ignoring my wife. The past two days I have barely spoken to her. Of which, i dont think I have initiated any of those conversations.
Tough, Are you living in my head or what. Do we have the same WAW? I have been wondering the same thing too, am I ignoring or detaching. Is there a difference? Also I dont want it to come across as arrogant either. In all Honesty what is there really to say to WAW? Do they even want to hear what we have to say? I don't initiate many conversation either. I dont think we are suppose to. My wife has asked me a few times "whats wrong" and I usually say nothing with a smile.
I dont know about you Tough, but this DBing is hard and its killing me. I dont know if I can take much more. My chest is always tight, its hard to breath, I dont sleep or eat much. How the heck are we suppose to be happy and have a smile on our face when talking/interacting with WAW? How are we suppose to act as if everything is going to be alright, when we are clearly hurting and want this person back?
Also, the log book is a great idea. My A suggest I keep one too.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
