Job, Thanks, I was thinking along the same lines as to what the ow's h does and doesn't do. None of my (or my h's) business. My h's reaction is his need to control every aspect of every situation right now.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama