It's difficult "in the moment" to come up with the correct things to say, especially when this is all new behavior. As NTX says, it might have been better to give it some distance and see what you were really feeling and then address it.
She went on the defensive it seems, with her comment. How can you discuss it with her without making it about her? (Because it really isn't)
I love the picture of the 2 of you playing scrabble by the fireplace.
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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
