Well I pay the day care, cell phone bill, auto insurance, I just finish paying her car 2month ago. I've also stopped paying the rent since she make a little more now. Deposit money to her account for shopping for my daughter, food and other stuff. I pay the insurance. I've cut some things. I enjoy playing soccer and traveling. Can't do that now because of our current situation. I will try and link up with some old soccer mate if I can find them. I only have two friends and they both married with kids. She asked me to marry her and also asked us to have kids. She was disappointed when it didn't happen the first time, I was wondering why but she said because we only see other once a month. Eric, respect have to be earn. It's not given. You have to work for it. I bought her stuff because she's my wife and don't make much. Not for sex or anything. No, I don't own her. She's a independent woman who make her own decision. I was never controlling but supportive. I started drinking because I was hurt. That was the only way I can relieve some of the pain. I want my daughter to be happy, I don't want her to see any fight or arguement with mom and dad. I want the best possible life with her. I want to experience some holiday with mom and dad, not necessarily I and w married but just to experience the spirit of the holiday with both parent without any fight. I'm not sure about the credit card. I know she has some high balance on her credit card. I paid the card down but she used them again. She was very loving and supportive at beginning. She even help with taking care of some of the renter properties we own by sending letters out. The last couple of yrs was different. She does help but I saw some distance. I blame myself for ignoring the sign and not doing something about it soon. I'll give her a great credit for taking care of out D. I enjoyed spending time with her and visiting family together. We always have some good time anytime we out. Our sex life was awesome at the beginning. She surprises me anything she's home. But everything change after our daughter got here. She hate her body, she complain about her looks and other stuff.
