Thanks Job and Bea. He mentioned to me a few weeks ago that he was thinking of taking a get-away trip this month so I expected another run away trip as he did on Thanksgiving and Christmas. What I wasn't expecting was a threat! Thanks for reminding me WHY they do this and that it's normal behavior.
I'm still thinking about the Anniversary card. What do I have to lose? I want him to know that our years together mean something to me. I know, I'm overthinking this.
A question for both of you. My stomach is in knots right now and I'm not sure if I should call, send an email, text him or let it go. I want to clear the air about the ow's h and his visit but I don't feel that it would make a difference to him. Will it seem defensive? Will it change his mind, do more damage? When in doubt, do nothing, right?
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
