Like Wonka, I wonder if that was part of her "cleaning the decks". I wonder if she realized you would be a different person while she made these changes...I doubt it.
You are different though. And in some ways I feel for you both. I feel for her since she seems to still be searching for something she already has but can't quite internalize.
Looking back I know why I did it, but if I had to do over again? I don't think I would be as careful to hold in what I wanted to say. Maybe, but I think it was far more beneficial to all concerned to be be my honest self. It's also wise to keep silent at times, I know. But being honest is important.
Glad to see the way you handled it T. I'd like to be in that club too
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
