I have always been a big fan of yours, and your actions over the weekend confirmed why. You have handled your sitch with such patience and strength, you have been very inspirational to me. You are a class act, a great father, and the husband any woman would want. Hopefully your W realizes that before it is too late. Good for you for throwing a few darts with tips shaped by calm truths. She needed to hear that and you needed to say it.
From a T wannabe,
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"