I have started keeping a 'log book' that describes my interactions with the children. I keep note of the date, what games we play, whether I make dinner or get them snack, who reads bedtime story, who gives them a bath, etc.

I think it may prove useful if my wife disagrees about custody with me. This will help, I think, when assisting with showing I am involved and my wife is not 100% the 'primary care giver'.

I noticed some small advancement on my wife's part I think in response to my detaching/ignoring. Pretty early to tell...and I think this morning she was pissed at me. Not really sure on that either, or if so, why. Another day in the life of a LBS....'huh, what just happened......I don't understand what is going on' smile


me 41 w43
married 20 years
BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY....
4 kids, 21,18,8,6