So, What about Bob?

[woody112]

As beautiful as I think my W is, she is no JA. She tells me she hears the JA comments all the time, and I acknowledge the likeness. I tell her how beautiful she is all the time.

I don't know if telling her I feel is such a good idea. I'm not even sure how I feel anyway. I guess what really bothers me is that she has held me accountable for acting like a jacka$$ all these years, and everyone else gets a free pass. Bob was one of the pastors (music) at our church a year or so ago. Bob got caught having an affair while his W was pregnant. The church helped Bob with counseling and such to get his life back on track and save his marriage. A few months ago the church allowed him back in a minor role. Bob recently got a job in another department where my W works. I guess they're friends now.

My W is really sharp-minded, but I think she's missing something here.