"Our marriage is over for now" can you guys kindly break this down for me. I'm thinking she saying since I won't stop talking about her and OM, she will rather relieve me of my pain for now and end things. Maybe we can talk about us the future. I haven't spoken to her since last night and plan on keeping it that way for now. She also said lawyer cost money and will file when she have some money, but we definitely inform me before filling. She said she's not in a rush or sure when she be filling. Could this be her way of putting me on backup while she figure things out with OM? I'm not pinning my hopes on all this but trying to get you guys opinion. I spoke to a female lawyer this morning and planned on going to her office tomorrow.