Originally Posted By: labug
Don't beat yourself up about where you are in the process, just keep looking forward and surround yourself with things that help you move forward.

Do try AlAnon.
thanks bug. I am trying. Having a hard time today. Maybe I can get some gym time later to burn off some of this.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14