Don't beat yourself up about where you are in the process, just keep looking forward and surround yourself with things that help you move forward.
Do try AlAnon.
thanks bug. I am trying. Having a hard time today. Maybe I can get some gym time later to burn off some of this.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14