She make some money now but I'm the breadwinner of the family. I pretty much pay for everything. The reason for not moving with her was because of my job. I was under contract. My employer also promise to open a new clinic where I can Pratice if i stayed with them for the length of my contract. That was a good news for us because I planned on moving with her to start her new job. I also told her last year that the distance is affecting me and I need her to come home or I move down there. She talked me into staying and looking at the big picture. We're both medical professional.