@ Eric. The answer to that is so simple. My father gave us everything. Took very good care of my mom. Bought her everything she want because she was a good mother. My wife knows that about me. I'm a very caring and loving man. I did all that for her because that's the kind of home I came from. She was very nice and appreciative of everything at the beginning. But the distance kind of kill everything. She's not even close to mother. My mother will not do all this to my father. I'm done studying her for now. Time to work on me and get myself better. Thanks Eric, pls continue to be there for me. I appreciate all your help