Originally Posted By: GreyMatter
there is no struggle without progress Paul. you are living it so its hard but we can all see the progress. Chin up and all that - the sun will return soon and happiness will be had!

next time when you're shoveling snow why not pretend its a sun shower and have a little dance like no one is looking!


thanks Grey. I will try.

Originally Posted By: artsy
It makes sense to me- I don't think you're ready to let her go. I think you really want to be ready, but you aren't. Truly, go to Alanon meetings. They help. They really do.

Hang in there------
thanks Artsy. Lots of tears today Not sure why....having a really hard time all of a sudden.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14