Well I suppose in a way, I still think the whole thing hasn't finished well. So it would be nice, and it is acceptable for me, to form a friendship with the W. Earlier, I would never have wanted to form that friendship, but I feel in a way I forgive her much more these days. I feel in a better place, knowing that at this time in life, we aren't R, but that I can accept that. While I am moving on (by that, dating) and I am no longer worrying about what the W is doing, saying or going, there is always that small hope in the back of the mind that says maybe she may come out of the fog or whatever. And at that time in life, I may or may not be in another relationship. So an occasional text every couple of weeks or so, isn't going to cause any issues or harm to me or my mental state. It is that chipping at the iceberg with a small teaspoon.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
