Thanks Karen, When it comes to parenting, I am learning to not look at them as "Mistakes". I am a work in progress and doing the best I can, which is far from perfect.
Like my marriage, I sometimes wish I could start over as a parent with the wisdom I have gained over the years. I figure by the time the 3rd is through high school, I will have it figured out.
Then I will be in a perfect position to provide endless guidance as a grandparent.