Thanx H, the old man was a great guy...And hello Wonka! I've been keeping up with your posts to others. Things have been good until the recent death of my FIL. And the iceberg is as frozen as ever but letting me know in a 2 sentence email about her dads passing was at least descent. If it wasn't for the online obit however I wouldn't of known much more.
Anyway's, things have improved all around with me. There are yet a few down times. However, I have no choice but to accept things for the way they are. My WAS is on her own journey of which I want no part of. My own journey is to continue to learn and grow. To accept my share of the blame for whats happened and move forward.
Funny how things take on a different perspective with time.