Oh I mentioned that he is still a kid just as S21. That they have mistakes to make of course but it is also my job as a parent to show what truly is possible in their lives. I don't want them to believe that right now is the best there is.

It is sad that S21's best friend, who is really poor, believes the best there could be is someone to love, an apartment and living paycheck to paycheck. This kid is stuck with a 20000 hospital bill that he will be paying for most of his adult life. I tried to raise money for him and got a whopping $20.00. I am thoroughly let down.

I want so much more for my kids and yes, even for S21's friend.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory