Portia, My late night buddy! I've been MIA for awhile but I'm back catching up now.
I'm happy to see that you are doing well for the most part. This is difficult to say the least and even though it doesn't seem to get too much easier in a hurry, we can gage our progress by going back 6 months, a year or 18 months and see how far we've come.
I'm with you Portia, PM and Bright. Wishing them happiness isn't easy. I do wish for him to be happy but with limits. HA! Happy without ow would be okay but happy with her, not! Right now I'm of the belief that if we get to that point where we wish them happiness WITH the ow then we'll know that we've truly moved on. I'm not ready to do that yet.
It's good to see that you've left the door cracked open. He may be one of the ones that does come back from Fantasyland and reconnects. After reading here now for over a year, I've determined that none of us can predict which ones will and which won't.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama