I agree that you should start small with regards to your h tak8ng care of your d. I think some guys have that built into them that mommy does everything. When I first became a father I told my ex that I wouldn't be able to do some things. Namely diapers and barfing. I don't know why I changed but I do everything now. I'm not phased one bit with his poop or barf. I know I do more for our son than my ex does.
My point is, your h might have a change of heart down the line. That's why it is a good idea to start small. It really does s*ck when a parent doesn't do their parent duties.
I hope he realizes he's gonna have to step up if he wants to label himself a good dad.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
