separated 8 weeks still on the journey

[paul19510]

Interesting text exchange with my wise friend. She suddenly turned the situation around. She asked me what would make you walk away from your home your kids and al your creature comforts? What would make you risk it all? Big pain....she ssys W is hurting and my holding on is keeping her stuck.

She says release her with my best wishes and blessing s for a happy life and she will begin to engage the kids and co parent more effectively and heal. She beleives it was never something I could fix. Walkingnaway from her ciuld be the kindest most loving thing I could do. She says w is saying I don't know because she's trying not to hurt me any worse...thoughts? ??