@ Eric.

Thanks a lot for the advice Eric. I'm from South Africa, while my wife is from here. She live up north with my daughter, It's more like 12hrs drive. I fly down there every month to see her and my daughter. I told her I'll
Move at the begging of all this, but she said no need since her contract end in few month. Not knowing she plan on doing whatever and throwing away her marriage in the process.