I agree with his dragging feet. If he really wanted to get the divorce done he'd have been here to finish it? He came home and took his clothes out of the closet which I didn't notice until he told me. I think the only reason he took what he took was he is going to a funeral today. He got most things but not everything.
As far as reminding me about getting a divorce I know he does that to convince both of us. I was referring to me and his actions reminding me why I want a divorce because of issues. There would have to be a lot to repair the damage and changes needed.
I really just need to duct tape my mouth and delete his number from my phone and tie my hands behind my back and DO NO CONTACT! That would be a huge 180 but I for whatever reason can't do it...I so want to and need to finally do it. That has been my weekness! I call he calls and so on....I need to have the kids 13 communicate with him because that is the usual topic. Another funny thing is he want's to fix things around the house for me. Now this is the guy who wouldn't do anything for me before! He just want's to keep a foot in the door. I know I keep saying I need NC and haven't done it. It's like being a druggy and needing one last fix. Even 7 years ago we didn't do it. I feel if I do it he will definitely notice and a much need thing. It seems he to has a hard time with doing it himself..
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
