it's good to get other opinions. I don't feel strongly about all of this but I remind Starsky and Bond, that YOU had the A. Not once, but twice, even after seeing how hurt your w was from the first discovery, you repeated it shortly thereafter!
Starsky, would you advise a woman in these shoes (i.e. the woman who had the A, twice) the same way you are advising JF?
I'm NOT accusing you of a big bias, but I am exploring this, b/c this situation is pretty different to me than some MLC WAW blurting out orders to her doormat h.
I don't see that here. I see a lot of confusion in her and possibly the reality that she had checked out of the m before...also sensing major depression in her.
I agree that being too supplicating can make you unattractive, but there IS some room for you to compensate for the hurt you caused.
A lot of this is a balancing act.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
