Paul, think about why you were angry re the driveway fiasco. Was it because your D was being disrespectful or was it because you thought W was once again going to blame you and you were "in trouble" with her.
When you can step back and observe these happenings, you'l be able to handle them in a very different way, I think. We are so often caught up in the emotion of the moment we can't see the forest for the trees.
Might you tell your W you won't be the 3rd leg of this particular drama triangle?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
