GM, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I do hope that everything goes smoothly and the papers are signed so that you can finally move on w/your life. You and your children have suffered enough throughout this ordeal.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.