Busting, you know what the stories here how difficult it is for WAS to give up OW. It would be too good to be true if your H could just walk away from this relationship with OW of almost 4 (?) years. According to his remarks about you treating him differently, he is working through something. He might be very frustrated because his life is not what he thought it would be, who knows.
I agree with Heather, keep doing what you are doing.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
Thanks Heather and Bright. You are both right of course. To continue my path. I keep reading it, writing it, and saying it to myself, however these days I feel like I am still looking back at the castle way too often.
I don't even know if he is in the process of leaving her. He certainly didn't seem to hesitate this much when he decided to walk out on me and the kids (read: VENT FRUSTRATION).
Thank you guys. I needed that.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
