Mama, I'm sorry. I know how much it svcks. I hate that my H takes my kids away too. I'll be honest, though. Having a little time to myself actually helps me have a better R with my kids. When we are together it's more quality time. And because I am taking better care of myself, I have more patience with them. Do something for yourself with this time. Go to a yoga class. Meet up with a friend. Take a bubble bath. Read a book and have a glass of wine. Or whatever makes you feel good.
I am angry with my H too, for similar reasons. Who knows whether they will ever regret it. The important thing is to make sure that you never regret the way you handled it.
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me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
I know how much it svcks. I hate that my H takes my kids away too. I'll be honest, though. Having a little time to myself actually helps me have a better R with my kids. When we are together it's more quality time. And because I am taking better care of myself, I have more patience with them. Do something for yourself with this time. Go to a yoga class. Meet up with a friend. Take a bubble bath. Read a book and have a glass of wine. Or whatever makes you feel good. 