I thought this might give you a little bit of a chuckle as well as some insight. It's called "Midlife for Dummies".

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...e=0&fpart=1

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.