Firstly thanks Wonka for that article. Right or wrong, I think most of us think/thought forgiveness was just black or white.

Subguy, that was brilliant what you wrote. It made a huge amount of sense and put the forgiveness article into a more understanding concept. At first it was how I was struggling with forgiveness, those 7 points helps change my view of what forgiveness is.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.