2old, my condolences also for your FIL.

I still feel we are both on the same track/story here. I know over the months we have talked about this and while the sitch's are still different, the actions by our W's are very similar.
Based on your iceberg reference in my topic, I think we are continuing on the same wavelength still. That is the smallest chip of the iceberg, using a pin.
The moving on, changing our lives and actions, being a better man is making our lives so much better. It doesn't mean we don't want the W's to be part of our lives every again. But if they aren't, then so bit it, life goes on.
2old, should be great catching up soon.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.