Are you going to pick up the car or pick out the car you bought? I am confused on what you meant there.
I suggest forgetting about long term words like always, never, any, and all.....Those words predict the future. Looking into the magic 8 ball is not something I recommend. You need to be focused on the here and now....How are you going to get yourself into a better place?
How to handle her calls...Hmmmm. First you have to understand that she is in an affair which is an addictive high. Keep that in your mind from this point forward. You can't help her with it...it is her addiction.
So in regards to her calls....If she is calling repeatedly though out the day you will have to answer. My suggestion is to temporarily ignore the calls. Give say an hour before replying. Now the reply can be text or call...Find out what she is calling about. If she is calling in regards to you just say "I am fine", "I am busy", etc...Maybe even answer the phone by inquiring about your daughter. Right now you are over-emotional, so you need to put up a shroud of sorts to cover up the pain. Once you are dealing with the pain, then calls can be handled differently, boundaries can be put up, etc.....But that is down the road, not right now.
