Four weeks in, hopeful but just starting!

[KGirl]

And no, you're right labug. Doing or saying anything will not get me closer to my goal. Asking him about what he's doing w/ OW outside of work, or who else he's slept with etc., is just going to show him that I'm snooping, that I don't trust him if none of those things are in fact true/happened and I'm misinterpreting something in the emails since I don't have the work conversation context, and essentially confirm H's friend's "assessment" that I am a crazy piece of work. I don't want H's friend to be right on that one : ) Even though it's really hard internally to be wondering all these things.