It happens a lot, read around here a bit. melissa's mentioned that several times along with 3boyzmom.

While I understand that it might be confusing, take it as a good thing.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss