What is Forgiveness

[Mic]

My DB coach wants me to tell my WAS I forgive him. Although I am in the process of forgiving and realize that I contributed to him feeling he had to leave although I feel part MLC. If I tell him I forgive him. Although I don't agree with what he's doing. We are in the midst of a divorce and my ultimate goal is to restore our marriage. I think telling him I forgive him will ensure he never comes home because I've accepted it and am moving on. I am moving on. I have to and each day wrapping up/dismantling pieces of our life together. I have thought about just saying. Awhile ago you asked for my forgiveness and you have it. Just leaving it at that. Would really appreciate thoughts. My story is on the newcomers board but since I'm new not getting a lot if traffic yet.