Am I abandoning him if I move on with my life? If the girls and I move forward and enjoy life, I feel guilty. He is in pain.
But, he has a choice. Doesn't he? I've made it clear I would stand by him if he went for help.
What was it you can do about his feelings, exactly?
You are struggling with that, I know, but you did not abandon him. He freely chose his path.
Guilt? I can understand feeling sorry for him, but guilt? They are your feelings, but I can't see how that works. Not really appropriate in my mind.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
