It made all kinds of sense, Gineen. You know too well the effects of living with depression, self-medicating, addiction. ((( )))
Rick, you're welcome to my party anytime! I don't believe all WAS are depressed but some are, some have substance abuse/addiction issues. I think it's a disservice not to point out that being a WAS is very different from a WAS with addiction. Or MLC vs this person is an abuser.
I didn't want to have to tell my H (several years ago), "Get help or find another place to live." But I did for my kids and me.
I don't want to have to tell S21 there are certain rules about living here and one is, you remain in IC.
We have such stigma around these issues. I think that's a driver. that's why I try to share freely about my depression, there is no shame in having an illness and seeking treatment.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss