Thanks for the support Melissa. I did ask tonight why he doesn't move out if he is so unhappy. He said he will. .. eventually. I did tell him I wanted a financial arrangement worked out by end of month so we'll see what happens.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15