Labug you have said several times just don't talk to him and I need to be just whopped over the head because I keep regressing.
For years H and I have worked every other Sunday. He works 2 Saturday I work 3 and we have a sitter for the one weekend day we both work. Same schedule for years. Tonight he looks at the schedule and says I can't do next weekend I am working. Then he tells me " his rotation is changing and oh well that I made my schedule for the next 8 weeks around his schedule I better just figure it out. "
When I say we can't afford a babysitter 4 extrs days a month he says I only care about money and I am such a Jew. So now he id an evil bigot.
Then he says that he knows someone who can watch s- the other woman. I freak out, he denies any inappropriate relationships and then spews his entire WAS you are so evil I have always hated you crap script.
I finally took off my rings. I don't want to be married to someone who shows such hatred ti ne, my family, and my heritage.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
