Thanks courageous, I really do feel a lot more peaceful than I have in a long time.

I cannot control anything this man does so I don't contact him unless I absolutely have to. Truth is that the OW is extremely threatened by me and the kids and she won't let him contact me or them haha

I would never wish any harm to come to him and I do still love the man I married, however too much has been done to me and the kids for me to ever take him back. I'm just disappointed in the man he now is.

M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending