thanks UD. I am trying. She'll be coming to S12's game tomorrow and he's looking forward to it. I texted her back to confirm I'd had the talk with d16 about continuing to approach with respect. We deserve it. I also texted he to say that I understand and accept her feelings and thanked her for sharing them. I told her, I am working to improve my listening and that I am making good use of our time apart to continue to grow.
My kids are detaching from her and I told her today, the come what may I really don't want the to suffer needlessly and I will focus my efforts to ensure the family lands as safely as I can from this trouble.
I realized that she doesn't care about my opinion much. At least she's talking a little. She was exhausted and upset when we were done.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
I am trying. She'll be coming to S12's game tomorrow and he's looking forward to it. I texted her back to confirm I'd had the talk with d16 about continuing to approach with respect. We deserve it. I also texted he to say that I understand and accept her feelings and thanked her for sharing them. I told her, I am working to improve my listening and that I am making good use of our time apart to continue to grow. 