Its hard not to think 'what's so wrong with me that even when things are going well and I'm being my best self this person doesn't WANT to be home with me every night?'
I hear that. There is no one else in this world I spent so much energy on trying to make her happy and support in her endeavors. You'd think that in 14 years of legitimately trying to be a good husband I'd have done at least one thing to earn her affections...but no (how good I actually was, I guess not good at all but I *was* trying). Her friends? Well they're just so amazing she'll leave me to be single and childless like them.
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.
