Yes, you go no contact, i.e., dark, and allow God to work on your companion. M Go Blue was the first to come here and say let go, let God and it's true...
The more he is allowed to focus on himself and whatever he needs to do to get to the other side, the better. The more you contact/interact w/him, the longer it will take. His focus has to be on him and right now, his self medications.
This is your opportunity to work on yourself, make changes if necessary and focus on you and your daughter.
You have to have faith in God and yes, the system does work.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
