He lives with OW and her kids (according to D11 he can't stand them).
He was giving me a mere pittance every 2 weeks that I couldn't survive on so I took him to court and got more. That was sept 30th and I never received a penny until January 16th, that was a hard 3 1\2 months. We got groceries from food banks, mostly from friends. H's BF of almost 40 years was filing my gas tank and giving me money for extras, I couldn't even buy my kids a gift for Christmas so H's BF gave me money to buy them 2 each.
H didn't even buy the boys a thing for Christmas, and to rub salt In the wound a little more he spent Christmas with OW's family right next door!
There is so much more that he has said and done but I'd be here all day typing and he's simply not worth my time.
The bottom line is I'm so grateful for my kids, I have their complete respect sadly he does not but that's his doing, not mine!
When you're going through dark times in your life you quickly learn who really cares and loves you and the ones who walk away, well they can keep stepping.
Emotionally I feel better than in a long time. I'm not where I want to be but I'm getting there and so are my beautiful kids :-)
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending
