work is good; H is crazy

[Whiterose]

So I haven't sent the message about S14's parent teacher yet.....but, went to the bank yesterday and my support payment wasn't there. Technically, should be the first but, I allow for a few days for his pay day to fall around it. Guess what wasn't there ONE entire month after it starts. I sent a non-judgemental (I think it was) text

Hi H went to the bank and noticed the support payment wasn't there. Just wondering if tomorrow was pay day and when I could expect it

Of course, I've heard nothing, so I've messaged my L to get my support agreement and get the government agency to start garnishing his wages. I would guess he's punishing me for not accepting his "deal" and allowing the letter's deadline to pass without word.

I just don't get their thinking......how does one justify not supporting your kids in anger towards your wife??