Four weeks in, hopeful but just starting!

[KGirl]

H finally came home at 9pm and completely ignored me. Went straight to change out of his work clothes and then to the other room to watch TV. Zero small talk or hello's, much less mentioning what he was doing. And things seemed to be going so well/more friendly earlier in the week. I do feel it's a success that I didn't text him or ask him anything like "where are you? when are you coming home? where've you been?" etc. and kept my cool, at least from what he can see, since one of his complaints was that he never felt like he could just go do things with friends/after work and be trusted. Now I just need to figure out how to feel that internally as well! I totally get now what people say on here about their H being an alien... it truly is like he's been replaced with some other version of him that only looks like him, a version that I don't care to in an R with at all.